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Prayer to a Love that Holds All
Prayer to a Love that Holds All

May we remember that we are meant to be free.

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prayerKristen PsakiAugust 17, 2021love, Freedom
Grounding Meditation
Grounding Meditation

In the wake of community trauma - most recently the mass shooting in our community - Boulder, CO - let's breathe together.

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meditation, videoKristen PsakiMarch 23, 2021grief, gun violence, mass shooting, breathComment
Shaping Change
Shaping Change

“All that you touch, you Change.
All that you Change, changes you.
The only lasting thing is Change, God is Change.”

These are the wise words of Octavia Butler - we’ll come back to them in a moment.

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sermonKristen PsakiMarch 21, 2021change, octavia butler, future, parables, imagination, adrienne maree brown, stanford prison experiment, philip zimbardo, joanna macy, great turning, god, unitarian universalism, faith, yuval harari, courage, humility
Chaplains for Whiteness
Chaplains for Whiteness

Reflections after the Jan. 6th insurrection.

I’ve been thinking about chaplains for whiteness.
Well actually all I could really say at first was “white supremacist terrorists!” - loudly - as if really accurate language would at least reveal the devastating hypocrisy in it all.

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Kristen PsakiJanuary 15, 2021grief, collective grief, white supremacy, death, dying, insurrection, prayer
Winter Solstice Blessing
Winter Solstice Blessing

Thank you.
Thank you to these long nights.
These reminders to rest, to restore, to heal.
To move in our cyclical bodies.

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prayerKristen PsakiDecember 21, 2020winter solstice, blessing, cycles, beauty, womb, bodies, life, luminous darkness
Finding Our Way In Chaos
Finding Our Way In Chaos

And I needed to evacuate.
Maybe some of you have had a moment like this - maybe even more than one moment - the rise of unprecedented weather events touching more and more - and more - human lives in recent years.

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sermonKristen PsakiNovember 15, 2020Climate Change, Climate Grief, Change, Fire, Faith, Unitarian Universalism, White Supremacy, Stephen Fry, Greek Mythology, National Geographic, Big Bang, Valerie Kaur, Breath, Community, WisdomComment
Calwood Fire Prayer
Calwood Fire Prayer

Prayers for all life - human life, more than human life.
For human families whose homes are in flames,
for forest families whose homes are in flames.

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prayerKristen PsakiOctober 17, 2020fire, climate grief, water
My Apologies
My Apologies

This High Holy Day season reminds all who are listening - to pause - and to turn toward all the places within our lives that sit heavy in disrepair. But what really makes a good apology? And what exactly is forgiveness?

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sermon, meditationKristen PsakiSeptember 27, 2020Yom Kippur, Rosh Hashannah, Judaism, God, Ancestors, Atonement, Rev. Victoria Safford, Breath, Apologies, Dr. Harriet Lerner, Brené Brown, Forgiveness, Rabbi Rachel Barenblat Comment
To Kill a Pig/Shaped by the Harvest
To Kill a Pig/Shaped by the Harvest

On one side the image of verdant and watery globe with the headline - “How we saved the world: an optimists guide to life on earth in 2070.” Flip the magazine over to see a dry, scorched earth with the words : “How We Lost the Earth: a pessimists guide to Life on Earth in 2070.”

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sermonKristen PsakiApril 26, 2020life, death, climate grief, farming, pigs, Earth DayComment
Climate Grief
Climate Grief

Climate grief can’t be fixed - it can only be felt.

And so perhaps its time that we remember how to grieve.
To not look away, but to move in closer.
To let the tears flow as long as they want to flow.
To find a place to yell.
To sing a song about the earth’s beauty with both joy and sadness.

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sermonKristen PsakiFebruary 23, 2020grief, climate grief, despair work, dr bayo akomolafe, shauna janz, sacred grief, joann macy, emotions, ellen bass, love, nayyirah waheedComment
Fire Communion Blessing & Prayer
Fire Communion Blessing & Prayer

May what you have released here be forever gone from your spirit and cease to trouble you, that you might move forward to embrace new gifts, and new life.

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prayerKristen PsakiDecember 29, 2019Fire, New Years Eve, Letting go, RenewalComment
Ashes: Celebrating Fire Communion
Ashes: Celebrating Fire Communion

What old stories are holding you back from rebirth? From singing your song?

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homilyKristen PsakiDecember 29, 2019New Years Eve, fire, Communion, Ritual, Letting go, Jan Richardson, Phoenix, Burning DayComment
Sacred Ground: Call to Worship
Sacred Ground: Call to Worship

What if each and every time we gather
we land on sacred ground

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call to worshipKristen PsakiSeptember 29, 2019Comment
Drink in Beauty
Drink in Beauty

When you take a bite of something warm and delicious cooked for you by someone who makes you laugh, when you share sticky fruit with another who you love, relationships of love and sex, based in trust and honest communication, the sound of the crunching forest underneath your feet, the smudge of paints.

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sermonKristen PsakiMay 5, 2019Beauty, Pleasure, Desire, Eros, Adam and Eve, Bible, Audre Lorde, Erotic, adrienne maree brown, Freedom, SpringComment
Invocation
Invocation
prayerKristen PsakiJune 23, 2018invocation, prayer, queerness, ancestors
The Big Squeeze
The Big Squeeze

The big squeeze is - valuing a shared meal with your family - cooking, planning, coordinating for the one agreed meal of the week - and being met with someone who is grumpy, someone else complaining about the food and the dog peeing on the floor.

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Kristen PsakiMay 27, 2018sermon, feelings, emotions, Rumi, Pema Chödrön, self-awareness, hospitality, love, whiteness, white supremacy culture
The Wisdom of a Dandelion
The Wisdom of a Dandelion
sermonKristen PsakiApril 22, 2018Biomimicry, Darkling Beatles, Earth Day, Climate Change, Oppression, Love, Justice, Wisdom, Heart, Healing, white supremacy, racism, beauty, wisdom, Standing Rock, Water, Indigenous Leaders, Prayer
A Prayer for Your Longing
A Prayer for Your Longing

Spirit of Love, Spirit of Beauty, Spirit of Mystery
Many of us long to connect.
To feel connected to something bigger than ourselves.
To feel that tug of larger purpose, deeper purpose moving us through each day.

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prayerKristen PsakiMarch 11, 2018prayer, longing, beauty, spirit
A Prayer for Balance
A Prayer for Balance

Spirit of Life, Spirit of Long Journeys - of Joys and Sorrows

We long for balance.
For that place of rest.

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prayerKristen PsakiMarch 4, 2018prayer, balance, breath, spirit, connection, that which holds all Comment
These Hands
These Hands

We give thanks for these hands
hands that have worked hard for many years
hands that have held many tools in many settings
hands that have welcomed new friends,
held babies,
wiped away tears,
written letters,
molded pottery

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prayerKristen PsakiJanuary 14, 2018prayer, gratitude, breath, ancestorsComment
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A poem for you. Especially sweet when read out loud.

“descend” by Gina Puorro

“There are things you can only learn
on your knees
or in a storm
or when the cracks in the foundation
of this modern world
open a chasm of uncertainty
beneath your feet.

Your discontent
with what has been named normal
is both grief and longing
for what your mind has forgotten
but your body remembers.

You can feel it
in the way a child's laughter
disrupts your commitment
to what is appropriate
and makes space
for foolishness and magic.

You can feel it
in the way that water
has taught you
how to be a vessel
and how to spill.

Can you trace your lineage
all the way back to salt?
The same that now stains your face
with both sadness and laughter
excites your tongue
and protects your prayers.

You are diasporic. Ecological. Holon.
A vast territory
of many wild bodies
melting into each other
dressed up as human.

Simultaneously living and dying
shaping and dismantling
filling up and boiling over.
Ashes to ashes
stardust to bone.

What language do you grieve in?
What is the mother tongue for that
which twists and contorts your body
wringing oceans from your skin?
The gravity that pulls you
down to your knees
forehead to ground
broken open
at the altar of all you’ve lost
and how much you’ve loved.

Can we fall apart together?
Make a commitment
to search for the truth
but promise
to never find it.
Let myths and stories
be the cartograph
for what is both
primordial and brand new
because the present moment
is promiscuous like that.
Compost ourselves down
into the dirt beneath the dirt
and tend the chthonic embers
that light the ancient fires in our bellies.

When the fault lines open
and your mind is grasping
and you don’t know
where to go from here;
prostrate
trade rapture for rupture
let yourself spill
and descend.”

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